he moves me... he really does. How long did it take for HIM to interact, or try to interact, with you this way? The eye thing i mean? or things like that... how long did it take before he began to try to reinforce that connection in a tangible way?

i am deeply fascinated by tangible connection. i have never had such a thing and if it ever happens with my T it's going to be a long time and i will probably have quit before that.

does this sort of eye contact help? can you really hold his gaze for very long?