Looks like an awesome book. The section you quoted describes perfectly how I feel when T has to cancel because she is sick. I worry about her because of a chronic medical condition that she has. It can be very serious of unable to control with medications. At the same time I get very frustrated and my abandonment issues surface. The logical part of me knows she needs to take care of herself. She has never done anything to cause my anger/ frustration so I feel horrible for being upset because she is sick.