I would flat out ask her why she wants to speak to your psychiatrist.

In my experience with therapy and seeing a psychiatrist, unless they are part of the same treatment team, in the same institution, there's usually very little coordination. I've never had a T ask to speak to my psychiatrist, nor has my psychiatrist ever asked to speak to one of my T's.

I currently see an addictions Dr. and a psychiatrist, both of whom I've seen for multiple years, and they've never asked to consult with each other.

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