You sound defensive about your medication, no offense. A therapist cant diagnose you, so if your marriage counselor wants a diagnosis, the only person they can ask IS the psychiatrist. The psychiatrist has a higher (and much wider) level of education. The regular therapist and the marriage counselor are pretty much on the same level, so they would like be just exchanging opinions. Maybe the psychiatrist can give you something to chill you out? I think theres 2 kinds of people in the world - faster and slower. Im definitely a slower! Good luck