I think most women want men who are employed. If you are employed then I don't think it matters how much you make. As long as you have income. It's not because women are greedy but because they don't want to take on people to support them. I'd say it's true for men too. I doubt they want women to mooch off them.

I met my husband online actually, on eharmony. No I wasn't looking for money. We make the same amount of money. We have similar career, and he is great. And so am I lol