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Old Jul 11, 2017, 10:21 PM
tryingtobeconstruct tryingtobeconstruct is offline
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We ended up having another conversation about my career, and she a little bit changed her mind. She might still want to go out.

It might be reasonable for me to think "ok, but now I don't want to go out with her". I don't know yet if that's how I feel. Some considerations.
  • She was just being honest about what she wants in a date. We call have our own preferences, many of which don't seem very enlightened if you have to say them out loud.
  • Money does count, and women in our society tend to view boyfriends as potential providers or at least financial partners.
  • Nobody's perfect, and I could do worse than be with someone who is honest.
  • I still kinda like her.