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Originally Posted by tryingtobeconstruct
We ended up having another conversation about my career, and she a little bit changed her mind. She might still want to go out.
It might be reasonable for me to think "ok, but now I don't want to go out with her". I don't know yet if that's how I feel. Some considerations.
- She was just being honest about what she wants in a date. We call have our own preferences, many of which don't seem very enlightened if you have to say them out loud.
- Money does count, and women in our society tend to view boyfriends as potential providers or at least financial partners.
- Nobody's perfect, and I could do worse than be with someone who is honest.
- I still kinda like her.
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Did she explain why she wouldn't date a dishwasher? Did she actually say it?
You are right that women and men look for financial partners but that's true for serious relationship and marriage. I don't think it matters if it's just casual. Not sure what you are looking for