I think your frustration is warranted. Your'e working a full time job and having to come home and do the chores. What if he did them on the weekend while you took your toddler out or you watched her? It's a bit crazy that the burden of both is left upon you.

Whilst you can't understandably put your daughter into daycare at the moment, the better solution moving forward might be to have her in some kind of program after his 10 week course when your husband is working.

But even then, when he's working, I can't see him doing much.

Any chance you can hire a helping hand once a week when he is working for someone to do things like vacuum / clean your floors / bathrooms etc.

I think he just comes from a point of being lazy and expecting you to do it, as he wasn't helping much even before the class.