I've heard there are plenty of men out there who are great with the kids and nurturers, but I haven't met one in my experience.
My h did less than the minimum, and if I asked him to take care of them, he'd neglect them. He'd make out like he just doesn't know what to do. Maybe these men just don't have 'maternal instincts'?
I never completely trusted him with the kids, and alwayslk checked up on them, made sure he fed them.
I'm not sure what to say to help you, besides I can commiserate.
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