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Originally Posted by smileygal
I'm the same...I am constantly looking at the boards lately but finding some of the stories (especially about T's) quite disheartening to read about. It's good to find other people in similar situations and yes it is great to have a safe place to ask questions I couldn't/wouldn't ask others but sometimes I wonder how much it is helping me. Although in saying that it does help reinforce my trust in my T and makes me appreciate having found a good one more than ever.
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Yeah, my marriage counselor says he wishes I didn't come here, I think because I've been worried about stuff he'd do (or stop doing) because of stories I've read on here. (Though I think I'd have abandonment fears with or without this board...) I've tried to explain how much support I've gotten, too, but I still think he's anti-PC. Though I guess there have been a few threads involving stuff with him where a few posters have been really critical of me. And I brought some up to MC, fearing he felt the same way. And he said he didn't. So I think he also doesn't like other people proclaiming how he'd feel (like, if I was prying too much into his life, that's up to him to decide if he's upset about, not posters on PC).
I feel like it's helped more than it's hurt though.