My marriage counsellor wanted to talk to my T but didn't give much of a reason other than "to get more background" or some such thing. It made me uncomfortable so I said no. It was a bad marriage counselling experience and I now wonder if she'd have gotten a fuller or better perspective on me if she'd spoken to my T. But a larger part of me thinks it was just destined to be a total and utter disaster and i was right to not allow a direct connection between crazy MC and my T.