The trouble is,if she doesn't send one back,I'll be thinking how rude/thoughtless is that??(I know that's not the sprit of it but there were so many times when she didn't bother to make the effort-in my case). She did send a card for my birthday which is the only time she contacted me since being horrible and breaking contact earlier in the year.I couldn't fathom why she sent the birthday card at the time either.Seems a bit strange to send that but no card at Christmas.I really don't know what to think.