LT - this is like the third time a similar episode has happened with your husband that you've mentioned here. So why not just take him at his word when he says he'll do something? He says he'll do it, end of discussion.

Sure, he needs to communicate better. But what interests me (at least if I were MC) is why you keep responding a certain way when you know what his answer will be and he'll get snappish. Is it like replaying the scenario over and over till it goes right and he reassures you?