Yup I seen this before. The male and female scouring system is different.
Where women tend to designate one award point per task men tend to score on their perceived importance of the task.
The only way I was ever able get my guy to see how poor our division of labour was by drawing up a spread sheet that actually showed every single job, who was doing it, that included watching the kids which originally he considered was a job when he was doing it but not when I was, cos, you know, I am their Mum...!

Anyway when he could see it out in front of him, it help shift his attitude.

Anyway good luck, hope you work it out.