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Originally Posted by SummerTime12
Thank you. I just don't want to sound unappreciative or anything. It sort of just made me feel like only a paycheck (which I guess technically I am), but I thought he stayed just because he wanted to. I just don't feel like telling him when I'm suicidal anymore. I don't know how I could word it though without sounding rude.
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I was going to say this too, but I didn't want to assume any feelings on your side or imply something that you didn't already feel.
I would really really be upset, because I, too, would think that he was staying because he wanted to... but then, devil's advocate here: he probably WAS staying because he wanted to, but he also has to be ethical. Which means reporting that he stayed longer and provided support. Know what I mean? He wanted to but also has to be ethical. If he didn't want to, he wouldn't have done it.
I don't think that you are going to sound rude bringing this up. I think your reaction is entirely normal and expected.