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Old Jul 13, 2017, 12:48 PM
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Originally Posted by toomanycats View Post
I was going to say this too, but I didn't want to assume any feelings on your side or imply something that you didn't already feel.

I would really really be upset, because I, too, would think that he was staying because he wanted to... but then, devil's advocate here: he probably WAS staying because he wanted to, but he also has to be ethical. Which means reporting that he stayed longer and provided support. Know what I mean? He wanted to but also has to be ethical. If he didn't want to, he wouldn't have done it.

I don't think that you are going to sound rude bringing this up. I think your reaction is entirely normal and expected.
It's good to know I'm not the only one who would feel this way, thanks. It's true that he probably does care. Thank you for reminding me of that