Those are fun notes, jd. Did he give them to you? Mine takes notes only for certain things, to help her keep track (I think). I would probably be upset or disappointed if I read them. Sometimes, I want to ask her if I were to know what she really thinks, would it be hurtful?

LT, what if, when H says, "FINE! I'LL DO IT!" You say, "THANK YOU! That's a huge help!" Instead of "I'm sorry." ??