I think for me that the attachment is a good thing. I've never had an attachment to anyone b4 & unless I experienced it, I'm not so sure I would have made the massive progress that I have made. I agree that it hurts at times, but for the moment, I'm enjoying it & my T at this moment in time is my transference dad. I had an abusive dad, so I'm experiencing a bit of what I should of had. Of course I want him to adopt me & take me home with him, but realistically, I know that's not possible. I trust my T & am working through it. For the time being, I need that attachment for my healing to take place.