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Originally Posted by velcro003
ATAT: I bow to your superiority in saying everything I am thinking, and writing it much clearer than I can *insert bow down emoji, but for pretend, bc I respect SD*
Art--Agreed. I do not like she told you she felt attacked. I mean unless you were literally screaming in her face, and were threatening...you weren't attacking her. I dfinitely think she is enmeshed, and you should not take responsibility for it.
I know you don't want to say specifics, and I get that, but i Just find it REALLY hard to believe you were "attacking" your T.
Also, sorry you had a crazy person as a caller today.
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I was def not screaming in her face. We were sitting where we always do. I was speaking loudly, but not screaming. I did say awful things to her as I recall. Things I would never normally say. I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one who was triggered. But I do feel like I needed to know how it affected her. Maybe I'm wrong I don't know. But yes enmeshed. That is the word I was looking for. I think that we both know that has happened and the shamanic piece last night was an attempt to acknowledge and correct it. If she had not admitted how it affected her I would not have understood the enmeshment aspect. That's my take.