Anyone's T ever hug, hold or touch them (like pat on the back, etc)? How often? Who initiates?

My T and I have hugged 4 times now, he always asks and gives me the chance to say no. It's due to a lot of issues I have being hugged but I feel safe with him so its been helpful so far

He has said that due to my other issues with touch, he is willing to work on safe touch exercise with me but we didn't get time to discuss it more so I'm not sure what that involves.... anyone know?

I kinda have a desire to be held by him... as I have never experienced that with a person but I'm far too scared to ask that, it feels too creepy... does anyone do that with their T?