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Old Jul 14, 2017, 12:11 PM
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Originally Posted by amandalouise View Post
sorry you were cold and glad you have a plan on helping yourself to be warm in future group sessions. yes the class does not focus on the instructor noticing if the students are dissociating, self injuring or legs jumping. they are there to teach the group material. here if they focused on pointing out any time they saw a student dissociating, have self injured or legs jumping they would end up not having time to focus on teaching skills. their time would be taken up like a support group ....Amanda I see you dissociating, amanda I see you are leg bouncing again, amanda I see you did this that and the other thing...also it could embarrass the students to point out that behavior when the group material isnt about leg bouncing, self injury and dissociation. its about you learning to control your own behaviors and learning how to take care of yourself during triggering/ trauma filled times by using the class material..

suggestion next time .......you.....notice you are dissociating, bouncing your leg or thinking of self harm....use your grounding tools that will help you to be present and focused back on the group and material. .....example take a deep breath, take notes, bring something small that you can hold, ....maybe write down when those things happen and why so that you can take the issues up with your individual therapy person when you do get to see them.
I don't have an individual therapist anymore, not since I started PE tele session and this CPT group. I mentioned the dissociating, leg jumping and self harm as disadvantages for therapist when doing tele sessions, via computer or notebook. That's how the PE session were done, by media. The media appointments worked out very well for me. Didn't have to leave the house, or dress up to go out, could go right back to bed after the session. But I can see where the the tele sessions very much limit the observation of the client. I mean really we could only see each others heads.
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