Hi Jelly,

I had a friend in a similar position to you. We are in the UK but I think this may help. She joined a local church and has not looked back. As well as a regular meet up on a Sunday, she goes on trips all over UK, seminars, social events etc. There is always someone looking out for her and she, in turn, looks out for others.

The older church members act as Grand parents for her, remember her birthday, etc. She is also involved with Sunday school. I am not a Christian but if I was, this would be the best place to go. I am sure other religions have similar set ups.

Good luck