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Originally Posted by artemis-within
How am I supposed to perform well on this interview this morning when I'm still feeling so bad about how I hurt you? I still feel awful about it.
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I'm not sure i understand being upset about hurting your T. Her JOB is to deal with your emotions.
If a horse kicks me and injured me, I don't expect the horses owner to feel bad about it. My job involves putting myself in the firing line of unhappy horses. A T's job involves putting themselves in the firing line of unhappy people.
If you were abusive, threw/broke things, threatened her etc I guess i would understand. But your T needs to be a big girl and take care of her own feelings, not make you responsible for them