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Originally Posted by DodgersMom
Hand holding is one of my biggest anxieties.... I ASSUME this falls under the safe touch plan so he probably is thinking of it, it would be very hard for me but maybe I could get there. I also don't know if I can ever initiate any touch. You are brave there
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One of my most healing experiences came with handholding. I have like an internal trembling when I discuss trauma that you wouldn't be able to see. When I held his hand he felt that. It was a part of me nobody else had experienced before. We just sat in silence until the trembling subsided. I felt I was sharing something which had previously been a very lonely experience.