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Originally Posted by DodgersMom
Hand holding is one of my biggest anxieties.... I ASSUME this falls under the safe touch plan so he probably is thinking of it, it would be very hard for me but maybe I could get there. I also don't know if I can ever initiate any touch. You are brave there
Did you just outright ask him to hold you? Thank goodness for the pillow haha, would be a bit crazy otherwise. That is awesome he does that for you though
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Not quite outright that last time, I believe he said something like, "is there anything you can think of that would help you feel safer right now?" and I said "I think I want a hug." He'd asked me that question many times before and my usual stupid answer was that I didn't know.
But yeah, I'm glad for the pillow thing. Otherwise nuh uh no way no how, it'd be awkward side hugs for me. It's also good because I can't like, accidentally knee him!