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Originally Posted by daisydid
RoboT has touched me a couple of times, all of which he initiated. The first time he touched me on the shoulder as I was getting in my car. It was just to get my attention.
The other time was in our last session. I was incredibly upset, and he was rubbing my arms in an attempt to console me. I liked and didn't like it at the same time. I do have a desire to be hugged or held by him, but I've never expressed this to him. I was so withdrawn into myself when he was physically consoling me that I instinctually pulled away from him.
Unless something epic comes up in the next 2 weeks, this is what I'd like to discuss with him in our next session.
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Bring it up, its weird, and awkward but if he agrees, it is awesome. I had been talking for weeks about my hugging issues and then told him, how I'm conflicted, because I desire to be ok with hugs and hug people but I'm weirded out by it, so he offered then and there... and have had 4 hugs so far. It's getting easier but I'm still in my head analyzing it every time lol