Not sure how you can love someone like that to death.....my love is based on my total relationship & respect for a person.....sounds like a REAL FOUNDATION to your relationship is non-existent. Nothing lasting can grow from a relationship with no foundation....& NO, LOVE is NOT the foundation a relationship is based on. Respect for how the other person behaves is the core foundation.

I experienced this in my own personal life....there were things that really bothered me about my fiancee's behavior I realized right before the wedding that caused me not to respect him (attitude issues). I rationalized it away.....regretted that choice for 33 years before I finally left....for exactly the same issues I had before the wedding. The lack of respect for him I went into the wedding with kept REAL LOVE from ever growing. I would suggest that you might experience a similar situation.