I started being defensive with people for some time.
A friend who tends to get irritated from small things at times, along a conversation sent me a "change your profile picture already" kind of message. I immediately interpreted it as controlling and didn't know what to respond, until I sent a blunt "No"

I am a person who hates showing weaknesses and defining himself, unlike some members of a WhatsApp group I'm in. They define themselves with traits such as sexuality spectrums, being sensitive, other traits (one even defined herself as arrogant, I found it unbelievable!).
Me? I don't know, I tend to not define myself, I don't see the point.

Sometimes, with all those social difficulties, I don't know who has the problems and who doesn't...
Over time I tended to feel everything is my fault and problems. I hate it when my a**hole therapist makes me feel that way.
I seriously don't know what to do