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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
We can't diagnose you. But there are possible medical reasons for your disconnect.
You need to talk with a psychologist. You could possibly be 'on spectrum' of Autism.
You keep referring to be neglected as a child. It might just be you haven't learned the skills and don't know how to connect.
You didn't respond to my question about if you ever had friends, people you enjoy being with. It sounds like you must be in your 20's. If this has gone on all your life, I'd think about it more seriously.
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Yes I am in 20's. I did have friends but it always did feel like things could be better, I didn't have many at a time and often hung out one on one. Now that there is no school, I just do not know how to "be". It is a very serious issue. I have not had a long-term friend a while and now that I try to connect, it feels like something is missing and it is hard to keep conversations going. They are not as relaxing as they should be. This has been going on for probably an amount of years. Some older friends have seen me once and did not contact me again, nor respond..
Eskie in another thread I said I saw some workers, therapists and professionals. I did not get a diagnosis (I think it is lacking skills and background), do not have depression and I can explain my problems fine to older people, I am not autistic, I can read emotions etc. But I don't know if I can cope.