Can you leave (find someone who needs a roommate) after you start the job? Don't take the job your dad found for you unless you really want it. But if you dad wasn't bossing you around and you found that job--would you be happy to have it? Try to figure out what you need to do to move away from home. Any job that enables you to save money that your parents can't touch is a step in the right direction. You are yelling and crying because you are in a fight for your life.....