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Originally Posted by Crazy Hitch
Have you spoken to him straight up about how you feel? Thing is, his "social schedule" would likely have changed quite a bit now that he has a girlfriend, and would put her first before accepting other invites to go out. But it's the degree to which he continuously does it that doesn't make it right.
By playing his game, you're pretty much guaranteed to end the relationship.
I'd have a chat with him first.
Some people can remain really good friends catching up ever so once in a while. Maybe he doesn't feel the need to catch up as often.
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his social schedule was changing long before she came along. i like her and am happy for them
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Some people can remain really good friends catching up ever so once in a while. Maybe he doesn't feel the need to catch up as often
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well i need more out of our friendship
I am very wary now and have changed a lot in the last few months. I was sick needed a friend no one wanted to know. There was one person always running to me to do work for her. i did it free for a 'friend' but she did not want to know when i was sick. Now i am better and am reevaluating. she is gone. no more free work
I have a suspicion, based on previous experience, he is very clever and wants to work thing so he will ask me to go for coffee and then at coffee to ask me to go other places because he wants to bring her. Free taxi. I then wonder if i am eing paranoid but as i say my suspicion is based on previous experience. people who call themselves friends are very clever sometimes. I am not and would not manipulate or use someone