My T hugs me after every session, unless I refuse it. She used to be very touchy.... when I got upset and cried, she would sit by me and rub my leg, or put her arm around me, pull me in and hold me, but she quit doing that after about 5 months (I see her twice a week). No warning, no discussion, she just quit, and let me figure it out. And she wonders why I have issues and fears now of her taking anything away. For lack of a better word, her actions retraumatized me seriously, and two years later I'm still a mess. It seemed to provoke a downward spiral in me, and I can't seem to get myself out of it.