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Originally Posted by BudFox
I've read quite a bit on transference (including the Lott book). I found some of it helpful early on. After a while though i realized what obfuscating and condescending drivel most of it is. For me it was helpful to just discard all the convoluted narratives and psychobabble.
There is an article that really hit home for me. I will post it if you are interested, but it is not an easy read. Could be triggering for some.
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i read the same Lott book many years ago when i too was looking for answers about the transference and counter transference that was taking place between my ex-T and me. i had a similar dissatisfaction to this highly recommended book that you did Budfox and found it difficult to swallow what Lott was trying to convey. of all the books relating to therapy and psychology that i have ever purchased, i found this one to be the worst and least helpful.
also, i'm definilty interested in reading in the article you have to share
