Thanks again to everyone who has replied!

I was not having any serious doubts about my T until that conversation with my mother so I'm pretty sure this whole thing is more of an issue with her than it is with my T. Also, I decided about a month ago to stop seeing my Pdoc and taper off my meds as I thought they weren't doing anything (I thought wrong!). So I think that also has a lot to do with me feeling like nothing is working and I took it out on my T.

I am usually quite good at looking at things objectively but when it comes to anything T related it seems impossible. It is quite likely T was just making observations or inferences and due to past experiences I perceived that at as criticism.

Anyway, I will be seeing my Dr about going back on my medication and seeing a new Pdoc tomorrow and I will have lots to discuss with T next session too so hopefully all of that helps to get things going in the right direction again.