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Originally Posted by QuietMind
// controlling parents keep controlling their children way into adulthood. They can’t rely on physical methods to control them anymore, but years of controlling and manipulative behavior already took its toll on the person, so usually pushing the person’s psychoemotional buttons is enough to make them comply. Guilt-tripping, shaming, silent treatment, gaslighting, playing a victim, and similar tactics usually does the work. //
https://blogs.psychcentral.com/psych...ng-upbringing/ |
thanks for this QM. this really rings true for me "People who were raised in a controlling manner often develop people pleasing tendencies because
they were groomed to see themselves as being below others and to put others first. They literally learned that their main function was to serve."