Sounds to me like you are comparing everyone to yourself because you aren't happy with what you have. I'm sure logically you understand that everyone has their own struggles, but it isn't always enough to make the envy stop. The only cure I know is to learn acceptance and gratitude for your own life and situation. Once you can learn to appreciate what you have and your own uniqueness, you won't need to be looking over everyone else's fence. Wishing you healing and peace. <3