how old are you.....reason I ask is that when I went to your posts it said in 2012 you were 12 then in 2013 your post says you are 16....usually how a person approaches sex with their partners is different depending on age....

example I'm not about to tell a 12 yr old how to initiate sex and for a 16 yr old I would say contact your doctor. they will explain sex birth control and so on to you...

something to think about....

in some locations telling a minor how to become sexually active can be a crime, especially online, which is another reason I don't tell people what to do about their sex life...

my suggestion if you are still a minor then contact your parents or your medical doctor, they will help you with this...