Dear MC,
I feel like maybe you could have steered that session a bit differently. It felt almost like you were trying to trap me or something with the whole "OK, explain to him why you care" thing. Don't you realize that's a fruitless exercise? [It's like when I first learned your wife was sick, and we talked about how I cared about you, and that I wished I could be there for you and you had asked if it was because I felt like I had to give something back to you because you cared about me. (Of course, I pointed out that we did give you money...). And I was like, "No...I just care because...I care. I tend to care about people."] It just felt like I couldn't win in session today (I know, it's not about winning). Like everything I said was wrong. Anytime I tried to focus on H, it ended up about me. And you called me on it a few times. I hope you don't think I'm this selfish person...

Of course you had no intention of making me feel that way...but I do.

LT

Edited to add: Of course I e-mailed you. You had to be expecting that though...didn't tell you the trigger part of course.