Having lost many memories to ECT, I want to contribute, but things are so convoluted in my mind I can't put together what I want to say. Consider this: when you have a hole in your memory, you don't know it's there until someone or something shines a light into it allowing you to discover that you can't recall what should be there. The event is lost. Many things my friends talk about are in ECT holes. Those things have not existed as far as I'm concerned.