Thanks for your reply - i totally agree with you about this.
I tried..
Will keep my peace and go on..as the song by Celine My Heart Will Go on"
Just too much flakiness in that church brought down by the "Leader"....
Think i will just stay close to my family and not wander off to any other churches right away .
The only reason i went back there is because she personally asked me to - after 10 yrs.
Nothing ever seems to change there but i have grown more assertive and will NOT be pushed forced - set up like that again - lesson learned.
The reason i accepted was to help her daughter with the kids .. that was the agreement... the first day i came back - her daughter left her to live with her sister. Now i now this was a set up and was brought back decietfully.. by deception.
I went in with boundries - leaving with peace because of it .