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Old Jul 18, 2017, 02:42 AM
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Originally Posted by Blanche_ View Post
I would hate my T if he ever did that...because I'd feel really rejected and angry about it.

You are doing a good thing for yourself, so I do want to encourage you. Just think of what you can do with all the money!

She will fade from your mind eventually, hopefully the warm memories will remain.
I'm not losing my T! And I may never lose my attachment to her. Actually, the goal is to lessen the attachment, not to get rid of it. A certain level of attachment is normal in every relationship. But she's not leaving me. She reassures me of that every week. She's just pushing me to depend on her less and more on myself.
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