Ive known the guy for about two years now, we study the same thing at university. I trust him and have huge amounts of respect for him because of consideration hes shown in the past, checking for consent and making sure im comfrtable with certain levels of physicality. This is partially about sex but a lot of my issue lies in me not being able to initiate anything other than a hug or kiss and it bothers me to be so shy/incapable/anxious/unconfident