I had gone to see her one time 7 years ago. She listened to my situation and said, "you just really don't like your h, and you should just divorce him." I went home and told my h that's what she said, he got furious, and I never went back.

But when I went back to her (after burning through several more unhelpful t's over the years), she looked at her notes and said, "you have EDD, I wrote that in my notes 7 years ago."

Then she makes that deflating comment among other comments, and I didn't go back to her again.

And I told her how I was feeling much better and in control of myself, how I will not be SH and feel that is behind me. And she says, "I'm not so sure."

This stuff just drives me mad. I take those comments to deeply to heart and can't let it go.

I don't know what to do now. I had a really bad weekend and cried all day yesterday, our wedding anniversary. While I wish we could be loving and content, it goes down the well to the opposite direction.

I feel helpless to do anything now, and just pray for God to act for me.