I agree--if a T gets angry with or feels hurt by a client, they're supposed to deal with that on their own time--not share it with the client. Therapists are supposed to be able to contain/hold your feelings--therapy should be a safe place to express whatever is on your mind. Both my T and marriage counselor have told me I don't have to worry about their feelings/reactions (and generally keep their feelings out of the therapy room--with the exception of caring about me). If you have to worry about offending the therapist, then it's not a truly safe place and you can't really be as open as you need to be (I'm saying "you" as a general person, not the OP specifically).