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Originally Posted by MelonSoda
I feel like I have no feelings...and it's hard when my mom is trying to push me to set goals and help plan my future when I just can't think of that right now..
Yeah, in a year I'm going to be finished high school and I'm gonna lose all my friends since they are going to university and I'm not..
I just don't like thinking of the future even when it's slowly getting closer and closer...but I can't feel anything..and it sucks...
And I feel like I'm wasting my life...yay...
Just venting...
Honestly just want to go away and not have to deal with anything...oh how I wish I was kid again...
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You don't have to go to university to set yourself up for a fruitful future. It may help and it may not help, however, it is best to know what you want to do so as to not waste time, effort, and money. I have many friends that are doing things completely outside of what they studied at university.
There are plenty of places to meet new friends these days. I've met some of my closest friends online; a few stayed as online relationships due to living in different areas and with some I hung out with quite frequently IRL. A lot of my IRL friends have moved to far away cities or different states and the only way we can keep in touch is via the interwebz or phone. The dynamics of friendships are always changing.
When you say, "I just can't think about that right now" why is it that you can't think about your future right now? It is good to plan for the future, but you can't put so much effort into that you forget about the present. Balance is needed, for sure.
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