((((((((((((((((((( Bethy )))))))))))))))))))
You are in my thoughts. I'm sorry for your loss dear one. Remember to breathe deeply and slowly. Pay your respects because it's the right thing to do. Hold on tight to some good thoughts and leave whenever you feel is an appropriate time for you to leave. If you are not feeling well, then leave hon. Making an appearance and paying your respects is what is important to you.....let the others deal in their own ways and you take care of you.

sabby