You sound like a person who trying to save someone from drowning but you can't even swim. Dose that make you a bad person? No. The effort that is put fourth on your behalf is not be unrewarded. Obviously you cannot take care of yourself and most of us have been there so there's no crime in that. Weather it be mentally, financially or just spending time w/ a child or significant other. The main issue is that you've tried. And have recognized that you've failed. Instead of dragging your child into your situation you've decided to better your childs situation by removing her from yours.