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Originally Posted by toomanycats
J told me to be selfish in this.
To not worry about S's future clients. That my only obligation is to myself.
So, being selfish, right or wrong, I do not want to report any of this. I don't want to go through that.
It's just...if J does report it and the board asks for more information or considers it bad enough to do something about and asks for my participation...THEN I will feel hugely obligated to future clients.... it's one thing to talk about the "what ifs" ... it's something else to actually have to put my foot down and say "No, I will not give you information."
I am hoping they do not put me in that position.
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I agree – be selfish. Your emotional well-being is what is most important so being selfish is far from wrong.
My t told me that if she had reported my ex-t without my permission, she would have had to list me, the client, as “anonymous.” Confidentiality rules will protect you if your t does submit a report. So, the board will not be able to contact you unless you give your t permission to list you as the client.