Scarlet,

I just wanted to tell you that I think you are doing amazing. Compared to posts from a couple of years ago, you seem night and day. I mean that in the most positive and supportive way.

Therapy can become an obsession. I know for me, I can become so involved in it- and thus, myself, that I miss out on life around me.

It sounds like you have so much more balance in your life. I think your T has really helped you. You are working through the tough abandonment fears while still receiving limited support and moving on with your life. Good for you!