Thank you for your post and the welcome. I have asked her to let me know that she is ok when I don't hear back from her but she doesn't respond to those messages either. I've tried leaving her small gifts at work with no acknowledgement either. I know that she isn't upset with me and is ignoring everyone right now including family. I think that she is scared to trust anyone and to get close to anyone so I don't want to push her away by overbearing her.